How to get everything rolled into one......

I ask you,.... why is it so crazy hard to get all my ducks in a row?  I cannot seem to get all my social, marketing and creative paths to work in sync.... I am trying my hardest to make this seamless and effortless.  I see people that can do it and I am astounded!  I must be missing something important...
 I have a few tech-type geek friends ( I won't name names, but you certainly know who you are)
 that just laugh at me and shake their heads when I do not understand their psycho-tech-geek-speak.
I am sorry but all I want to do is create new works of art! New  lovely visions with simple instruments that I understand, like the pencil. Remember that tool?  That, I understand.. it is simple and straight forward and it understands me.. it knows what i want it to do, Just DRAW!  It is so forgiving,.... not at all like web stuff. and computers.. the language of which is so lost on me.. maybe because I am just not that in to math... 0100101 blah blah....Shhh go to sleep now and think about all of this later... or better yet! Don't